You aren’t worthless and I’m sorry you feel like that. Going to a psychologist is great though, it just may take some time until you start feeling better and I’m glad you’ve been cut-free for two months, please don’t start doing it again. I know things may seem hard right now, but you just have to try to get over it. I know it may seem impossible, but it’s not. There are people that are there for you, just talk to them. Everything will get better, I promise.
Keep talking and hanging out with him and don’t have sex with him if you don’t want to. Take it slow and see where it goes. If he stops talking to you because you won’t have sex with him, then you have your answer.
Thank you so much, that really means a lot to hear. (:
This may sound cheesy as hell, but nothing makes you get over somebody except time. You’re going to be sad for a while about it, but one day you will wake up and it won’t hurt as bad. Surround yourself with friends and family, and maybe go on a date now and then. Flirt a little. Don’t focus all your energy on him and soon enough he will just be a blimp on your timeline.
They may not have known him.. but they know you. And they should understand how much he meant to you. Don’t be scared to talk to them about it, and break down, and be vulnerable. Your friends should be there to help you through it, if they aren’t then you need other friends, ones who are there for you. Being around friends and family and them helping you through it will be the only way you get by.
I understand why you want to break them up, but I can’t give you any ways to break someone up. That would only cause more problems then it would fix. If he gets so depressed when he is away from her, imagine how he would be if they broke up. He would be devastated. The best thing you can do is confront him about it and tell him how you think he is falling behind in his studies and everything.
Sometimes friends are so expendable. If you’re in a new state, make new ones. Go to places like a coffee shop, or a concert, and be friendly. Get a job and meet people there. Everywhere you go there are new people for you to meet. Put yourself out there and find new people.
I don’t know how old you are, but I can guarantee you are under 20.. your life has barely begun. Things may suck right now, but you have the ability to change it. You have the power to live, and begin a life that you want to live. You have so many more opportunities to change and grow and love and have sex, and do things you want to do. Give yourself a year. Get a job and save money, move somewhere you’ve always wanted to go, start over, do things that make you happy.
Thank you :)